This insane urge to pen things down has been inside me for awhile. I keep thinking I should be doing it and then I don't. I've bottled myself up. I don't feel like myself. I cannot raise my voice to voice an opinion and I'm wondering what the fuck is wrong with me? I've turned inwards. I speak out loud as I write this - can you hear me? Can I hear myself?
I'm at such a loss.
I think I know what the fuck is wrong with me and then I find the courage to go on and then I'm back to being a shadow of the person I used to know as myself. I can't talk. I'm so paranoid. I'm angry. I'm mad at myself. I'm mad at myself for being so hard on myself and yet I can't stop. I'm angry that I have lost my voice. I'm angry.
I'm pissed at how I cannot talk to anyone anymore. This instagram life sucks. Not that my instagram is great but I mean this need to show everything is okay has left me at a loss of friends. I don't have any friends. I doubt their intentions. I cannot seem to trust anyone.
Not even my partner.
I cannot trust him. I constantly keep judging him. I'm hard on myself and I'm hard on him. He's the closest to me yet I fail to connect with him.
On paper I have a great life. Yet I'm so unhappy.
I do not feel wanted or needed and I think my partner is bullshitting me. I doubt his intentions. I think he's the most selfish person I know. I do not think he loves me. I think he's just used to having me around.
I've said this before and I keep thinking that he's gonna bail. My life circles around him and I don't know what I want. Such a shame. Even as I write this, I cannot believe how desperate and needy I have become. I've become those women I used to mock. Where's my spine? Where's my better judgement?
I seriously do not think he's in for the long haul and for how long do I need to wait to see if I'm right or not. Am I going to keep my life on hold forever? I'm stuck in a quicksand. I think I'm sinking cuz my mind won't sit quiet and I'm on a self loathing spree.
It's so easy when people say you're going to be fine you just have to believe it. I know. But when do I get there? Seems like I've been waiting for it to happen for years now. Except for sporadic glimpses of bliss, when will I ever be happy? When will I stop being so hard on myself? When am I going to do what I want? Hah! When am I going to figure out what the fuck do I want?!
So many questions and I struggle to get the answers.
Here I sit in this beautiful house that I share with my partner and I'm wondering when will he just pack up and leave. I have no confidence in this relationship. It's like I wish I could go back in time and just take a year off to just be by myself instead of constantly being in meaningless relationships year after year after year. If I could only sit still and discover myself. Who am I? What do I want? I used to know myself but as time goes on, I don't anymore. I stubbornly hold parts of me, like a dying man holding on to his last breath. Not sure if the metaphor is right but you know.. I cannot listen to my mind anymore. I'm so scared of closing my eyes and just *being*. I physically feel like I will trip or that someone will hit me when I let go. Just the thought brought tears to my eyes.
I'm not in control of pretty much anything in my life. The least I can do is keep my eyes open until it's not physically possible to do so anymore. Constantly vigilant. Who is going to hurt me next? How am I going to be disappointed next.
This is no way to live my life.